How about the LELO Ella or Jopen Ceres (on sale) Read more

Thanks!! I had so much fun with that series. Read more

Thank you thank you thank you! Please see my response above about where to find me in the future! Read more

Thanks so much for your kind words! I’ve had a blast writing here. The good news is that I’m moving over to Adequate Man and will be posting there regularly (albeit not as frequently). You’ll also be able to see some of my more relationship-centric thoughts on the general Lifehacker page. Thanks again :) Read more

Thanks for spreading the word! Read more

Yeah, there’s an entirely separate piece that can be written about whether you should tell your partner you cheated, or if you should keep it a secret. That’s really a doozy. Read more

Thanks Alan! Read more

I think what sets the Eva apart is that you’re not putting a part of the toy inside of you, like you do with the We-Vibe and Ida. The company says they’re the first “non-obtrusive” hands-free couples vibrator. Read more

I’ve experienced the same thing... not sure why there can’t be more handy infographics along with the instructions! Any particular toy that seems confusing to you? Read more

Yeah, that’s a fantastic idea! Read more

Reserving communication to Hangouts is a great idea! Read more

Yes! Read more

Thanks! Read more

Yes, its a GREAT book! I love her Read more

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http://afterhours.lifehacker.com/why-the-iud-co… Read more

Yes, that’s correct, and the copper IUD has no hormones whatsoever. Read more

The copper IUD does not have any hormones it in. Every body responds differently, but not everyone experiences cramps or heavier flow. And for the majority of people who do have side effects, they vanish after 6-12 months. Read more

Self care means different things to different people. I’ve worked with clients who took two or even three weeks. A luxury that only a privileged few can afford, for sure. But I think self care is extremely important in this situation, and that it’s worth pushing your resources (whatever they are) to their boundaries. Read more

I see your point. I agree that any and all cheating is a choice. Personally, I think that one horrible choice is quite different from repeated horrible choices. Read more