Very well timed. My husband and I are in a rut. Mostly because I’m 11 weeks pregnant and I just don’t have the energy and my boobs hurt like crazy and yada, yada, yada. I’d like to try these out and see if maybe we can get something going again.
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Forwarding to my husband. I have a really hard time with feeling like we SHOULD have sex, because the quickest way to make me not want to do something is to make me feel like I have to. It’s a stupid vicious cycle, because the more time passes without sexytimes, the harder it is for me to feel comfortable. It’s… Read more

Thank you. I mean, it’s great that he loves to play around down there so much, but sometimes it feels more genealogical than sexual... like “can the rest of my body get some attention?"
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I’ve told my husband repeatedly that rolling over and poking me with his morning wood is not an effective seduction technique, but hope springs eternal, I suppose. (Or doing the boxers-off shimmy in the kitchen while I’m trying to watch Hannibal...) Read more

That sounds totally reasonable to me Read more

You know, sometimes I wish I could just do that. I feel like an ungrateful bitch saying this, but I don't always want to have my vagina played with for half an hour before sex, sometimes I'd rather just have a quick make-out sesh and some grinding as foreplay.
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Last year we bought sex jenga which is pretty fun. It's sexual, but it's also pretty funny to be scrambling back to the jenga tower to grab a piece, so it makes for a hot and silly encounter.
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This is wonderful! My husband and I have been married for over ten years now, together for a few years before that. AFAIK neither of us has strayed, and we are committed to our monogamy, and honestly I’ve barely been tempted because our relationship is loving, romantic, and satisfying. Our sex life has been awesome. I… Read more

Also, if you are a woman, laying spread eagle on the couch while diddling yourself is not a bad strategy.
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As a corollary to #1/#2, consider what has FAILED in the past. For instance, my partner has often expressed that same sentiment you mentioned—he cannot control himself when he sees me coming out of the shower in the morning. However, my partner interrupting my morning routine to try and have sex with me when I have to… Read more

GORGEOUS! So funny too :-)

My two go-to’s: Read more

I’ve found that”hey, wanna throw a load in me?” works every time. Read more

For my hubby and I, we have signals, like naked cuddle time or I have lingerie that I wear that indicates I’m ready and open for sexy time. It has worked really well as long as neither of us are sick and/or really tired. So having signals indicating you’re ready or open seem to help. Read more

This is very timely for me - I’m a newlywed going through a very frustrating lull. What I thought would resolve itself after the wedding, didn’t (duh). Read more

ahahahahaha amazing !!!

“The kid is watching a show; quick, lock the door!” Read more

Nothing’s hotter than a combination of desire and restraint. The idea of somebody saying “I must have you right now or I shall die!” and then just gazing at me or barely touching my face? He is gonna GET IT. Read more

The illustration is epic. Read more

My ex liked to show me he was in the mood by randomly whipping out his junk and standing somewhere in my vicinity until I stopped whatever I was doing and noticed his jiggly parts hanging out of his pants.
He wasn’t much for subtlety. Read more