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Vanessa Marin
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Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist who helps people have way more fun in the bedroom. Head over to www.VMTherapy.com to check out online programs like Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.

For example, “I got herpes from an ex who told me they were clean” Read more

I really get it on both sides. No one wants to risk contracting an incurable STI. But it’s also sad to see wonderful, loving people rejected for having an STI that has essentially no complications and usually has no symptoms. Read more

Most physicals don’t screen for HSV, so there is a likelihood those who claim to be STI-free aren’t. Read more

Seriously, where is everyone having all of this sex? Read more

This is completely untrue and part of the stigma of having an STI that prevents disclosure. Given the numbers of people with incurable STIs, your perception that they’re all lacking for partners is incredibly inaccurate. Maybe you’d never fuck someone with one, but that says far more about you than it does about Read more

Nope, nope nope. Sure many people don’t want to take the risk (who can blame them). However, others don’t find it to be a big deal. Depends on the person. I’ve known MANY people with a STI (present company included) who have sexual relationships with those who are not infected and don’t find it to be a big deal or Read more

I’m going to send this to everyone I know with herpes. Read more

I know yeast infections aren’t STIs, but they’re similar in a lot of ways and it’s been weighing on me for a long time. I have had a persistent yeast infection for years now due to diabetes. Have any of you had sex with a yeast infection with a new partner? I mean as long as I make sure he doesn’t give me oral, it Read more

Hah! I made it to 26 without a STI! All I had to do was... uh... not be able to find a date. Dang it. Read more

You should try mixing toys in with your sex routines on occasion.
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My wife bought me one of these for a birthday present. This review is spot on, the toy is really good. Also, I’ve gotten significantly more uses than 50 out of it and it hasn’t shown any signs of deterioration, I just take really good care of it.
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Sigh...well I just bought one now, thanks to this write up. I suffer from the dreaded deathgrip and from trying to be too efficient (fastest route from start to O is most preferable), so this should help slow things down. My wife will be hella confused though. Bright side, she has her own little sex shop in her night Read more

Wow, I guess I lucked out then. *remembers that men are looked down on for using toys* Oh shit, I mean... durr, what’s a Tenga?
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Frottage makes me come easier than PIV, for sure. It’s all fun! I like to make the rounds. Read more

Yes! I was just telling my woman’s group that making out with my husband like two horny Christian teenagers dry humping and all has made our sex life a bit more exciting. I highly recommend it. Read more

I’ve been regaining an appreciation for dryhumping lately because my girlfriend has a toddler and it’s difficult to get alone time.
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Handjobs/fingering are also incredibly safe, work for any gender combination, and as a bonus typically involve less chafing/rug burns. Read more

As soon as you bring back my highschool girlfriend. Your move “life”. Read more