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Vanessa Marin
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Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist who helps people have way more fun in the bedroom. Head over to www.VMTherapy.com to check out online programs like Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.

I have some tips as a...ah...viewer of such material Read more

Put your damned pets out of the room. It is funny how many people just have sex in front of their pets and film that shit. The dog isn’t going to join in (I hope not), so kicked Fido out. Read more

It’s incredibly hot to see things from another perspective. Or if it isn’t, you don’t bother with it again. Easy. Read more

If you want to go meta and watch yourselfs via viewfinder, i recommend recording yourself with an iphone/ipad, airplay them junx to appletv and turn on your hdtv and watch yourself. its like a mirror on steriods because you can move the ios device virtually anywhere...if you get a good tripod dock/adaptor. Read more

A ring light is the only light you need to make a super solid porn: Read more

This has been the one time a selfie stick might actually be of use*

*For actual angles but YMMV Read more

“Film close-ups of penetration.” Read more

This article encourages narcissism. I’m secretly digging this. Read more

Or you can just hire Kris Jenner.
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I took video of a partner going down on me just for the hell of it, and it turned out to really turn me on. I was surprised. But there’s nothing that can really identify me in that, I just know it’s me. I’m not sure I’d want a video of me flopping around on top of some poor girl making faces, but maybe it’d have the Read more

or do you want to role play other characters Read more

Yikes, you think people should go buy and then learn to apply body makeup before taking sexy photos and videos with their partner because it’s unacceptable to see some stretch marks? That’s absurd. The majority of women have stretch marks from puberty. They’re not gross or shameful. Sitting around spackling your on Read more

Doing this during the daytime, in a room with a ton of natural light, will get the best images for those without great lighting. Venetian blinds work wonderfully for this. Read more

As the receiving partner who is the bigger person, I recommend it, too. It puts the giving partner’s mouth at a particularly fantastic height range to take care of what’s happening up top. Read more

I’m 6’9”. Creativity is always your friend. It’s easy to fall in a rut. Read more

These are great run of illustrations.

Nah, those examples apply to penetrative sex for any combination of genetalia - male/female with either receiving, 2 male, or 2 female. On first read, I thought the tips applied only to situations in which the penetrative partner is the larger one (which is a heteronormative assumption); but after a closer read, it’s Read more