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Vanessa Marin
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Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist who helps people have way more fun in the bedroom. Head over to www.VMTherapy.com to check out online programs like Finishing School: Learn How To Orgasm.

This times 100! I love that people in general are more open to talking about sex, but it’s also sometimes frustrating that the male enjoyment of sex is reduced to ejaculation only.

Too much of our conversation about orgasms for both men and women seems to get ruined by dudes who suck in bed. The guy who’s too stupid Read more

I read this as “Here’s how to have a healthy relationship with your partner’s and your hand.” Read more

As a man I can guarantee you masturbation is absolutely not in competition with sex. They are different, though very related things. Yes, physical sensation can be be muted from excessive masturbation. But all it takes is a layoff of maybe a week or two. Read more

What no gif or reference to the compulsive masturbater in some random episode in season one of Sons of Anarchy?
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I will find a use for this gif someday.

I would like to see an article on premature ejaculation. A lot of guys, myself included, suffer from this. It never affected my relationship with my boyfriend though. Read more

Caught red-handed!

That “be honest with your habits” portion applies to being honest with your partner about your habits too. I am not advocating keeping a tally sheet on the refrigerator or sending a text notification after orgasm or anything, but a lot of the issues the come up in a relationship regarding masturbation are related to Read more

what girls don’t realize is that at that moment, they could look at you the wrong way and you’ll blow your load. All it takes is the slightest twitch to send you over the edge. You can’t control that. Read more

Can’t lie, the gifs got me to click this article. Read more

Now see, this would be a presidential rallying call that I can firmly get behind. Read more

I want to hire the .gif designer to help create my Christmas party invitations. It would basically be the same thing, but instead of red hands, we would just have them covered in wrapping paper with a glass of wine in the other hand. Still masturbating though of course. Read more